Broken

Broken

Loving and cherishing a person is way more difficult than breaking them.

It is easy to break a person, To shatter his/her heart in a jiffy.

Breaking their trust, Breaking their heart, being disloyal, being rude, being unfaithful, being unreasonable. Every single one of these can break a person, sometimes beyond repair.

Mostly we don't intend to hurt anyone, at-least intentionally, But we do, In our day to day life, just with our words, actions and selfish deeds.

It's very easy to break something, but mending it? not really.

Take a glass plate, throw it and shatter it into pieces. Now sit and try to put it together. Make it look exactly like it was before breaking. Was it easy? Were you successful?

Broken and Shattered into millions of pieces

The answer will most probably be no. First of all, Finding the broken pieces would be a great deal. If you're successful with that, putting it together will be like solving a puzzle which is highly intense and can hurt u in the process with its sharp edges. Let's say, you've done that too. But does it look like it was, before it was broken? Does it look like the same shining glass it was before? 

The answer would be NO!!

When anything is broken, it does not break into equal and proper pieces, It gets shattered into tiny particles that get lost. Even if not so and you have successfully put the pieces together, then also the scar that was formed will always remain, reminding about the pain.

Have you ever felt the pain as if your heart's been broken and shattered?

Broken and shattered into millions of pieces

Everyone at some point of time would have felt the pain of a broken heart. If not, brace yourself, because you'll face it soon enough.

Broken by friendship:

Everyone of us have at-least one friend that we treat as family.

Ever been betrayed by them? Ever been left by them without a reason? Ever saw them move on without any care about you?

If yes, You would know what I'm about to convey.

We betray people for our selfish reason without a second thought. Imagine the amount of pain they went through, Imagine the amount of loneliness the felt.

Once a person is betrayed or left by a friend for unknown reason, they stop trusting others. They stop believing people. The isolate themselves from the world unable to trust anyone around them.

They build an invisible wall around themselves that they, them-self would not be able to break easily. 

Being betrayed at-least give you a reason to hate the person, but being left without a reason and moving on with other people is the worst of the lot. There is no closure, you keep waiting for them to come back to you, even though you know it's not going to happen.

Broken By Love:

Being in love with someone is one beautiful feeling. Being in love with someone means we love them unconditionally, trust them blindly, feeling like home, Happy and cherished in every way possible.

Being in love is like a beautiful dream, but suddenly reality crashes in and shatters the dream, that's when severe pain is inflicted.

Ever found your lover cheating on you? Using you for materialistic needs? Toying with your emotions for selfish reason? Leaving you for someone else?

If yes, You would know what I'm about to convey.

We cheat on someone for unrealistic reasons. We betray them for our convenience.

Did you ever think what they would have went through?

When a person is cheated by love, They don't just try to stop loving that person but stop loving everyone around them. The feel used and wasted. They blame themselves for someone else's mistake. They conclude that they are not good enough. They lose trust in themselves and not just the world. 

Their emotions are a haywire, they lose themselves to depression and dark thoughts.

The pain is infuriating and they react in an unpredictable manner. Either they go weak and isolated or they go reckless and wasted.

Broken By Family:

Home is one beautiful nest built by family. But when the family cease the exist. The home feels like any other place.

Ever felt unwanted by your family? Ever felt like a disappointment to them? Ever felt like the least loved among them?

If yes, You would know what I'm about to convey.

Trust me when I say this, No one can love you like your family. You are never unwanted. You are the one reason they are always proud of, May be secretly, but surely proud of. Your loved with every ounce of emotion they have.

Not everyone is good at depicting their love by PDAs. They may not hug you daily, They may not confess their love for you but they love you more than anything the world. Your are their family. Their whole world revolves around you.

If you ever feel the above, sit and talk to them. Make them understand. You'll see a great change in the their behavior. They will love you no matter what happens.

A small Advice to everyone out there:

Let go of all the baggage from the painful past.Please do not hurt yourself. Pull yourself together. Those people do not deserve your tears and attention.

 Move on towards a happy future. Pamper yourself at every given opportunities. Love yourself more than anything. Live your life with a zest for happiness