Women Safety

WOMEN SAFETY

Are women safe in this world?

Why are women seen as objects?
Does a woman deserve such treatment?

Cases:

Case 1:

A 8 year old kid, Asifa was taken to a culvert in front of a temple where she had been kept in captivity, and sedated, for four days in Rasana village of Kathua district in Indian-administered Kashmir. The girl who just started to live her life, was raped in a temple mercilessly.

Did she deserve this?

One cannot blame a 8 year old, stating she seduced a guy to get such a result.
A temple which is supposed to be one of the purest place, was used to exploit a kid's childhood and innocence.
A woman during her periods is not allowed inside a temple for the "so called purity" reason but a woman was bled to death and was raped at the temple.
Rape is just a 4 letter word but it destroys a female's life to the most.
A kid lost her childhood just to satisfy 4 hungry men.
Is it that her Allah couldn't save her, because it happened in a temple? or
Our dearest Hindu gods were hesitating to save a Muslim kid?
She was the victim of the hungry and insatiable society.

Case 2:

A man allegedly ‘gifted’ his 35-year-old daughter to his friends and later joined them to gang-rape her early Monday in Sitapur district, about 70 km away from Lucknow. The woman had been married off 16 years ago but returned to her maternal house within two years of marriage after a feud with her husband.
A dad literally gave away his daughter to his friends to exploit her and joined them to rape her. Right now, In India we are unable to even trust our family.

A father, who is supposed to be the super hero of his daughter.
A father, who is supposed to love and protect his daughter.
A father, who is supposed to care and cherish his daughter,
Pushed her into darkness and joined his friends to ruin her life.
But, Hats off to that woman! 
She did not worry about the society, she took an initiative and reported this crime to the police.


These are not the only cases facing this problem. Every single day, a woman undergoes such a trouble somewhere in this world. These being the new cases, I focused on it.

Mentality of the so called "Society"

What is the so called "SOCIETY"??

We the common people are the society.
We only know how to blame a person but none of us ever thought about how to solve an issue.

If a woman wears a jean or a short, we the society call her "slut".

If a women wears a typical cultured saree or chudidhar, we the society call her "Behenji!!".

These are the name tags which we give to the women around us.

but..

Are the women wearing a saree safe enough?

No! They are equally at risk.

Women are not objects which men can easily take and use. They have their own god damn life.

We cannot abolish such cheap mentality men from our society in a day's time. It is not a simple order or law which government must pass, but it is the mentality of  each and every person around us.

IF YOU WANT A CHANGE! BE THE CHANGE!!!

Make sure every woman around you is safe and make sure they are given the respect they deserve.

A man never uses a women based on caste,beauty or any other reason.

Those are just the reasons which they state to cover up their mistakes.

The true and important reason is that men in the current world, lack humanity.

There is always an exception.

Not every man is bad. There are few men who treat women with utmost respect and safe guards them with everything they have.

We tend to hear a sexual harassment news at least once a weak. But those are not the only cases. Few women are suppressed, so that they do not file a complaint. Their own family suppresses the news in name of pride and society.
This society which right now, supports the rape victims and fights for their justice will show its real color  very soon. We the society do not accept a rape victim as one of us. We isolate them. We treat them as impure people.
A women does not only lose her innocence and life but also loses her dignity and pride because of such issues.

Parents rather than teaching their daughter to dress properly, should rather teach their sons to respect and save women.

We the society must change! We must support our women! We must accept them as they are.

Changes to be made:

Men who are responsible for such issue's must be hanged to death or must be given a very severe punishment. So that, the others will understand the consequences.

If you happen to know a guy who does not have respect for women, then make it your duty to explain things to him and make sure to change him for good.

Every parent, rather than pampering their sons with all the love and hiding their mistakes, must teach them how to respect women and how to save them.

Even though people are fighting for women support, still we women are the person to be judged and blamed at the end.

In India, there is a saying which states, that the women living in India are treated as goddess and respected the most.but the truth is that those so called "goddess" are the one to be objectified, used and thrown.

Every random person now a days, speak about women empowerment, but do they actually believe in it? Do they respect women in the way the showcase them?

The answer is No! Most of them don't! They know that women empowerment is a strong and sensitive topic. There are a very few people who means what they speak. Who follow their own words.

Wide Aspect:

I am proud to say I am a woman. A very strong women who does not need a man support for survival and safety. I know fighting techniques and i use it to save myself.

Every single woman must know basic fighting techniques.
Women are mentally strong but they must work on their physical strength.
There is nothing a woman cannot do.
Be a proud woman and fight for yourself;.

A small advice to the men population:
Respect women around you. Treat them as humans and not as objects. Women are supposed to be loved and handled with care.
Treat them as the most precious part of your life, because that what they are.
Women are damn precious and unique human personality who are absolutely equal to the men around the world and deserve the same respect that the men get.


"Live to your life's content but make sure you do not hurt anyone in the process".

A small message to every women around the world:

Hey there woman,

Look at you!!

Your gorgeous.

You are the strongest, believe in you.

Love yourself more than anything.

Fight for the truth and justice.

Whenever you feel low, just remember you deserve the best, so work for it. 

I know the worlds not fair on you! 

But who cares?

You know how to survive.

I promise!

One day this world will be a better place for you to live in, but till then do not lose hope.

Make sure you stay happy and please don't let the society affect you.

Stay confident and keep smiling.