Friendship

Friends are the people who support us when we are broke.They hold us together when we are shattered and they live their life with us as we are one.

Now a days, lot of memes and quotes showcases best friends as people who irritates you,laughs at you, rather than supporting you and all kinda stuffs... but, Is it true? Will you call someone who laughs at you during your tough time, as your best friend?

Of-course, No!!!

A Best friend is indeed a person who irritates you,Who mocks at you but only when you both are alone. A best friend is a person who supports you and believes in you, when you don't believe in yourself. A best friend is a person who molds their life according to your opinion to be with you. A best friend is a person who stands against the whole world to support you, even though you are wrong, but gives you a tight slap in person to bring some sense into your head.

Have you ever felt that your best friend is being a bit distant?

If yes! Did you ask them the reason?

Most of the time distance is friendship is caused due to change in priority either for you or for them.

Someone may have replace you or may be they felt being replaced by someone.

Giving priority to your friendship is the most important thing. Never make your friend think that they are not your first priority,because it hurts as hell.

Being the second or last priority for the person who has always been your first priority sucks.

When a person is warm to you and is ready to sacrifice things for you,never let them go.

A true friend is a person who is still with you after bearing your tantrums,your emotional talks, your psychopathic behavior,your mid night unnecessary calls and a lot more.Those people love you as you are and will stand by you forever.

Never take your friend for granted. They may do everything you wish for even though, they don't like it. But the question is, Are they happy?

The answer is No. It hurts them to do things which they don't want, but they still do it for your happiness.The frustration keeps piling up and one day for sure will reach its peak, and that day will be the end of that beautiful friendship.

Whenever a decision is taken, make sure to think in every loved ones point of view so that no one will be hurt.

Personal Experience:

Blindly trusting people, That too pretty easily has always been my weakest point.

They tease me, mock at me and always took me for granted, but i never confessed it. It hurts as i have always been the second priority.

 It hurts as my decisions are taken by them without my opinion. For me, confessing it to them about how i feel is not really cool! As i feel that, they don't do it intentionally and if i tell them about my feeling, they will be hurt which i think will make me equal to them.

 I personally hate hurting people even though in the process i am the one being broken.

Suggestion:

Make sure the people around you are happy but don't sacrifice your happiness. Your born for yourself, but live your life to make people happy because seeing smile on others face and knowing that you are the reason is the best feeling ever. It gives you utmost satisfaction.

Keep smiling.Live your life and never let "the special" friend in your life to slip away.