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First Crush/Love

First Crush:

Everyone in their life, irrespective of their gender would have a first crush during their school life.
Most of them won't admit but a few does.
Our first crush may be a very innocent and a sweet classmate or a popular diva in school or your play friend or even your cute neighbor.
Crushing on someone for the first time is an amazing feeling, because both the characters will be innocent and the feeling will be due to small actions of the other person and not due to the outer beauty.

Crushing on your classmate would have been a great experience, because your friends will be teasing you with his/her name.You would spend most of your day, looking at your crush, hoping that he/she will smile at you. You tend to do all silly and attention seeking things to grab his/her attention. At last, that one smile on your crush's face defines your happiness.

First Love:

Every first crush need not be the first love, because crush is just adoration but love is a deep emotion. The first love and first relationship of one's life feels heavenly, because its the first time you experience such a care and emotion, but with age-things change, misunderstandings starts to crawl in. Distances are created due to miscommunication.These problems affect a few very deeply leaving them shattered and a few moves on.

Is First love the true and best love???

First love is a great love, because it carries a bit of innocence of the couple. but its not the best love in most of the cases.The love which last longer and the love which actually follows this quote-"Till death do us apart" is the true love.
Love filled with innocence is beautiful, but love filled with maturity and understanding is worthy and deserving. For a person, first love which stays as one's last love is the best gift he/she could ask for.

Emotion:

The smile on his face,
makes me feel alive.
The look on his eyes,
makes me wanna drown😍.

Every word he speaks,
feels like music to me.
Every step he moves,
Seems to be the dance moves.πŸ’“.

Every time we talk,
My heart goes crazy.
Every time we touch,
I lose my sanity.πŸ’•

He is the world for me,
He is my life,
He seems to mean a lot to me,
But does He feel it too?πŸ˜•

Personal Experience:

Like every teenager out there, I had my first crush during my 9th grade. A guy filled with attitude, over-confidence and what not! At the beginning, I hated him with all my guts, but when i started speaking to him, I realized that he is a guy with a hard outer shell, but is one of the sweetest person.I adored him and liked him. 
I did all the stupid antics to seek his attention and the grin he gives me will make it all worthy, but as time flew, the adoration reduced and the emotions vanished. He will always be remembered but he does not define my live anymore. Since then, I haven't even crushed on anybody, of course excluding the celebrity crushes.😜
I wish to find my first love which I hope lasts forever.πŸ’˜

Tip to Happiness:

The reason behind loving a person must be only because of their internal beauty and the couples soul connection and not because of the outer beauty and hotness. Your lover must be a person who should be loved and cherished and not a barbie doll to be showcased. 
Love a person because of their kind heart and their character and not because they have abs or a sexy figure.

Love,Be loved and love your life!!!

Comments

  1. Yeah it happens ...
    Why did it vanish??

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    1. Frankly aftr 10th we were not in the same skl..so never met him..its literally 5 years so have got used to the emotion..n alil bit of a sad story in between...

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  2. Your next work... should definitely be a soulmate.....the one who accompanies you till eternity.....and this scripture just gave a spark to all the nostalgic times that would have happened in everyone's life😍😍😍😊😊😊

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    1. Hope it does revive good memories...thank you soo much!😍❤

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  3. It's nice to see those beautiful words but the bitter truth is in now a days many people are become bisuness minded they are not giving any importance to any ones feelings in their life ....

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    1. True tho...ppl change..their likings change..bt thrs a bit of hope still hidden to outside the darkness

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  4. the wrds u used are really gr8...its completely true!

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  5. Heyyy......😍U r really rocknggg babe!....😍Keep going dear 😊 !! Ur words r likeπŸ”₯πŸ”₯😜

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  6. Actually myn life is to same as urs but my crush was my lover but after sometime I realized that it was not true love and we breaked up but according to me love is an divine feel that will be like an heart beat when we get it but loving the right person is important guys .Ensoy ur life❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

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  7. Madam Ji! Kalkunga Kalakunga!��
    Really Cool Thing...Every word is �� there! Keep Posting like this! ATB!

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  8. Reading this I remembered my school crush some used to go for attendance some for seeing her

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