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FAMILY

The one thing a person cannot afford to lose.
Losing your family is worse than losing a part of you!

Families used to be big and joint,but then came the nuclear family which consits of  mom,dad and their kids,which was atleast acceptable!
But right now, the situation is worse. The new trend is " THE ELECTRON FAMILY ", which consists of a couple or 1-2 person in a home.

Family is supposed to be the first priority but according to the current generation, saving money for their kid's future is more important than spending some time with them. This allowance and carelessness spoils most of the kids, giving them excess freedom and lavishness.

At the beginning, the child may enjoy the privacy and freedom but at time passes. Lonliness creeps in! The kid starts to crave for attention and love which they dont recieve. This affects the mental and emotional health of the child.

Buying everything your kid wants and taking them out for dinner does not show your love to them. But a 2 minute hug and some sweet murmuring does. Those 2 minutes per day is enough for a child to feel the love and support of thier parent to have a happy and successful day without a break down.

Lot of dreams are crushed due to family pressure. Every induvidual has the right to chose thier own dream and passion! Thats not something to be imposed on!

Family is a give and take relationship.
The kid has to give respect and take love, support from the parent, but even if one of them do not complete thier responsiblity then the family breaks!! Misunderstandings creeps inn!

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE:

Me,my mom,dad and my elder sister used to live together. But due to dad and sister's work, they moved out.
Right now! Its only me and my mom.which is what I called the electron family.
I was brought up by a nanny because my mom and dad did not have enough time for me. Frankly they still don't have. They never acknowledge thier love. But i have learnt to understand and accept it. It hurts bad.

At times i feel lonely and terrible but I got used to things due to which i can now confidently say to the world that, I am a self made woman who understands situations and is not dependable on anyone.

MY REQUEST TO PEOPLE:


Work,money,friends! There are a hell lot of things that may be important to you. but give your family the first priority. Show your parents and kids that you love them. Giving privacy is needed but leaving them alone and making them lonely is not advisable..love you family and then spread love.❤❤

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  1. Sandesh Haribabu25 March 2018 at 22:28

    If you ever think so lonely...never forget that you have a extended family out their. Never lose hope.Everything happens for a reason.N the most loveable thing about you is that boldness and determination...never lose that..god bless you💞💞

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    1. Invisible angel25 March 2018 at 22:34

      Awee.i knw that my extended family will always be thr fr me...thank you soo much!😍❤

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  2. Hurted person25 March 2018 at 23:08

    Being lonely is an worst feel angel but remember that how ever they are ur family they to have no means than u ,u to have no one than them at one stage of the live family only helps us to make our day move, but finding an extended family is good but keep this in mind that the person that who made u to this earth are ur family and keep an way for them to show u love and affection as they will come when they realize what u go through I pray that ur family understands ur feelings and spend s time will u and u to will be happy .☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

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    1. Invisible angel27 March 2018 at 19:38

      True words bro...watevr happens! My famiky will mean the most to me..will nvr give up hope on them!😁

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  3. Subhapratha S26 March 2018 at 00:20

    Why do u ever think so lonely if u have ur extended fam. Just dont care abt anything and be urself. Its great that u r independent. Coz there r so many who r been brought up dependent. Just take things in a positive way n always believe postive things will happen. ❤

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    1. Invisible angel27 March 2018 at 19:36

      True tho..i m proudly independent and ya..i have a great extended family..whom i love a lot!!😍❤

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  4. Unknown26 March 2018 at 08:59

    Lonliness is just a mirage, that you will soon surpass . Thats hustling yaar....
    But dont worry we are holding your back...

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    1. Invisible angel27 March 2018 at 19:35

      Ik...thank you fr being thr when i needed a bro!!😍😁

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  5. Shree27 March 2018 at 20:06

    Awwwww!!!! Striking words babbbllloooo!!!! Your words perfectly emote all your heartbreaking pains and your pulsating heart... ,never mind those... Of course dad and mum may have failed to shower all the love u desired, but they are the ultimate idols who'd be by your side ever and ,to augment it, of course we too, exclusively your people will always be yours no matter what.... Top of all, just remember one thing..."Those who fly solo have the strongest wings" and yeah you're strong... As I always admire, you're an epitome of strength my babbblloo!! Neva lose the charm for I'll eva be yours...

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    1. Invisible angel27 March 2018 at 20:57

      Thank you soo much dear. Ik whatever happens u ppl r thr fr me and even tho my parents dnt hv time fr me, Ik that they love me the most and i will love them with all my heart!!!😍❤

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  6. Unknown29 March 2018 at 17:37

    Never ever feel alone dear! If u doesn't receive something it doesn't mean you doesn't deserve it!It meant you may deserve more than it!MORE than any thing else!!sure your love who perfectly suits you will come on an auspicious day😍. And the life will be 💑💖💖adorable!! And ofcourse you have an extended family!So,never worry!!You got more than what every 1 usually gets😂😂!AND THIS ARTICLE IS REALLY MIND BLOWING BABE!I really felt it while was reading it!Heart touching babe😍💖💖😘

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  7. Unknown29 March 2018 at 18:20

    That's at its best.. It's all about the family who cares about you.. Don't loose anyone

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